Below is a piece I want to offer with a few years on it.
It probably is closest accounting of my relationship to a dear teacher friend, teacher for consideration as school years are starting. She just taught for my husband's District in Mesa a class in their teacher in servicing.
Corine Reeber is an instructor of
T'ai Chi Chih. She is also a retired many year teacher of kindergarten. When I wrote this about her I really did not know that she had a life also teaching T'ai Chi Chih. I intuited it actually.
That's funny. I centered and found that river anyway.
One of her core strands is chi.
She honors this in all she does and her presentation to his staff was the breath of life.
Some days are harder and I found her tonight meditating in my troubled thoughts.
As a reminder of the beauty of life.
She retired last year and I miss her presence in her room at Bard School. I gave her Susan Ohanian's book on Kindergarten...It meant quite a bit to her, like myself for a bit she thought she was losing her mind over the foolishness of this testing Standardization. I recommend Susan's book to the world and it will help you if you are teaching. What Happened to Recess and Why Are Our Children Struggling in Kindergarten?This presentation on chi coincided with my husband getting his staff a book I recommended to him to allow for a year where reflection and journaling and stepping back becomes a part of the daily meditation on our practice. It has to be a strand teachers take up and weave into the tapestry of their teaching life.
Teaching in Mind: How Teacher Thinking Shapes Education (Paperback) by
Judith Lloyd Yero
This book is excellent to start a year.
Please consider this to start your year. It asks you to examine your teaching praxis, your values, assumptions, what are the "secret" things you pass along to the students. What are we doing in our work. It starts by asking us to examine our metaphors. To make them, hold them, consider them. To reach understandings about who we are and who we want to be.
It is a very personal book. A very positive experience, quite good. Excellent.
He ordered it for the staff and had them design a rock. I did a rock painting summer project. A thing, a making, a creation/transformation project, an experiential metaphor.
I asked him to do this. To compose a year, compose first within your heat.
A rock to represent the metaphor they use in their working relationship to teaching. You will sit like a rock in the heart of every child, an anchor, a reality. It matters to make this a real thought. A rock. Teaching as the flow, the chi through the earth rock...that was my connection.
His in-services meaningful.
What is your metaphor? I wish I could meme this and see it spread and ler this of all the teachers blogging.
I'd like to see this taken up in our "talk'. Let us share this one to another on this grapevine of meaning we make here. Yes?One teacher today said she sees it as a "verb" an action..good... Another designed the rock as a sky, as in the thought that it changes constantly and reflects light and possibility, carries the pleasure of life to us.
Ah teaching as sky, beautiful. I can understand this....A garden seed the earth, grow me this child I see this....An ocean of life and water giving life force..I see this...I find these kinds of thoughts quite important to try to reach out. Are you there will you try this with me to start this year together?
What is your metaphor? What speaks to you? If looking at this appeals to you the book by Yero will be one to add to your work.
Below is the piece on my dear friend.
On the metaphor she drew for me as a parent of a child in her room.But she, my friends really is living
the construct of chi. Everyday.
Random Acts of LoveThere is a beautiful Al Jarreau song on his
All I Got album. It goes in part, “ There is just one thing I know, that is a gift to the giver, one thing I know, let it flow like a river, just one thing I know, that’s a gift to the giver, one thing I know, that’s a Random Act of Love…” it is a beautiful piece of melody and it flows into the hearts and minds of teachers.
So much that we do, we do from a love for children, a respect for the heart and mind of their person, we take a little act each day and hope it flows into the river of their life helping to shape the mind, the person, the character of a child.
It isn’t going to rate in an API, it isn’t going to be describable in an accountability index perhaps, just as we don’t see the droplets that form the mighty river. It flows. It pours from the heart of the teacher to the greater good of us all.
I know someone that works that dedicates each moment of her life to acts of love, often random that flow like a river. And she is inspirational to me as a person and as a mother, and as someone that seeks to create a climate whereby we teachers talk about what we do with kindness and concern for one another and with focus so that others might understand.
She has given her life to her teaching job and it has become her symphony, a melody, a tune that lights the darkness with the beauty of her love for those she teaches. And to those great moments I must also direct my thought in writing about Hueneme. For as I worked in the hood I went over to a neighbor school and saw a master at her craft.
Once, so long and so short in time ago, I was a parent sitting in a tiny chair at a low Kinder sized table listening attentively at Parent Night to a talk by
my son’s first teacher.
One of my now dearest friends.
My husband who was Principal there had an idea that teachers could
talk about the Standards and the curriculum, the texts and the homework on this night and thus give “presentations” to the parents.
So I was focused on another Daddy who was sitting near me for the second show, and on a momma that looked the age of my daughter, and on
a little lady who talked of a snowball.
She held forth her hands, rolling them up in an imaginary ball and spoke of my child as a snowball that comes to school and gently rolls down the little hill and more snow is added and more learning is added until a little snowman emerges. Her metaphor. Now ours.
In my mind, which is given to wandering and thinking, I saw the book I read so long ago about the little boy out in snow, all suited up in his snowsuit. Peter. I thought of my little son just going forth into a world bigger than our own, I thought of the movie he fell to sleep to each night ironically called “The Snowman”.
I gently steered this teacher,
Mrs. Reeber, to whom we had brought my greatest treasure, to talking about my own little snowman. After all in Parent Night all parents know you must corner the teacher and wait to hear them tell you what is the miracle,
the seed of light they see within your child. Every parent knows this. Parent Night is by definition the night to see if another being, this teacher, sees the divinity you know rests within your child.
What is special about my child, do you see it too?
And your breath is held that first time around, as you start the kindergarten year with your child.
For this is the start of your contact with the “ school world”.
Can they see the light that beams when you look into the eyes of your baby?
For you know if they cannot see it, it may well be extinguished, the little snowball might well not start to grow and develop and become so much more.
Then
Mrs. Reeber knowing my heart and thoughts, looked up with the joy and love in her eyes of someone who sees miracles and makes snowmen of little boys and said, “Oh Sarah, Luca is so serious in his work, he gets right to business, he is such a good worker and he builds so nicely with Kyle in the blocks and is such a joy.”
And it was the sparkle in the eyes.I watched through many days getting my son at Kindergarten where she worked late to allow me and others to come late, seeing her at work with others, watching her with the children she always remembers and talks about and the sparkle shines forth. Mrs. Reeber created a metaphor of snow to talk about her class; I do not soon forget that.
In an age of accountability, scores, data and tables, with her working for someone(my husband) that loves all things chartable, she built a snowman in my mind. I was so tickled with that. So relieved. She can still see a snowball rolling down the hill of learning. There is just one thing I know…..let it flow like a river, just one thing I know that’s a gift to the giver, just one thing I know…it is called a Random Act of Love….. and it lies in Teaching.
Mrs. Reeber does the teacher things, she organizes, saves, recycles, plans, creates, dittos, staples, cuts, pastes, prints, crafts, reads, writes, designs, builds, buys, finds, helps, thinks, shapes, suggests, hauls, tries, defends, describes, and generally does every teacher task to levels that qualify her for mastery. She can also find songs that I heard in my kinder days about dragons and loafs of bread and Sammie that even I lost in memory as the years flowed by in my river of learning. She can fish out something you need and find clips, stickers, bows and markers, crayon pencils and fruit loops with the best of them. She creates a program that is exemplary, designed to allow children as they start school to listen, to look, to paint, to feel, to think and create. She can put them in rubber boots to create a book about snow, take photos of their days and present each parent with a Memory Album they themselves might never create because in the moment they don’t realize the fleeting nature of days.
But Mrs. Reeber knows.
She knows where time is flowing and she knows the little snowflake, this stage of their childhood, is quickly melting. She captures the beauty. It becomes a gift to a parent that she presents to the family and simply gives you their time and days recorded in their painting, writing, their life that went by in just a blink of your eye.
One day I stood at a doorway and got my son’s kindergarten kiss of goodbye so big and so warm and Mrs. Reeber came up to me and said, “Now Sarah, cherish that because next year as Luca is becoming a big first grader that will fade.”
And I in the land of “Taken for Granted” where so many of us live, listened. I listened to this teacher of mine, me a first grade teacher who needed a lesson, and I held on to my hugs and kisses and hand held walks to the room that Mrs. Reeber had so warm and toasty ready everyday. And those days faded and he did go on to watch for friends looking sideways through his eyes and he did go on to pull that little hand over to himself. Time was fleeting.
Mrs. Reeber strives each day to bring to Kindergarten time the feeling that it is the most special, the most wondrous, and the most precious of gifts. Each day in her room is adventure and learning, is accomplishing
and finding pride in one’s actions. Each day the sun glows, the earth rotates, the acts of love take the form of the most wondrous gifts of all, “You can do it”, and “You are special”. Each child is developing and each child is blossoming into the being that they can be. I had to smile as my son started to bring home his box of books so beautifully made and crafted full of the books, stories, poems and read them to me sitting up in his chair full of pride. I knew as a teacher I was seeing “phonemic awareness” and the first roots of reading, seeing readiness be evolved. But I knew as a mother I was watching a master teacher at work. I was seeing the actions of a teacher who loves her work, loves her students and has made her life in dedication to them becoming successful.
Not One Child Left Behind has become an “
Act” by Corine Reeber. I saw something called
the Act of Love. This could never come from legislation, and it isn’t bought and sold. It lies in another realm altogether. And it cannot be legislated to a teacher, it is just demonstrated by their actions. It is without a doubt the river that flows in many teachers in Hueneme, it is without a doubt restorative to any teacher.
We must see their good works. We must know we are part of this river that flows in their heart. There is one thing I know…..
Education must be driven by those who have this kind of spirit, dedication, commitment….It’s the gift to the giver. Mrs. Reeber deserves an accounting to you of all she has done over the years, committees, chores, services, awards. And I cannot begin to account for those. I know they are there in abundance. I was affected by her in my teaching, she allowed me to share with her stories of things I felt sad about, needs I felt I was wanting in affecting in children, difficult moments. Each and every time she recharged my battery, focused me back on the task with a new frame of mind. She allowed me to drift as I often do, to talk, to talk too much, to try and find a way to voice my concern with political changes in the air in the country in regards to education.
And then she might look to the little Kinder bikes and tell me about a child that had loved those bikes, a little boy I love so much, she might take my arm and go in to remind me I could quit wasting paper or how to run something in a two-sided way. Corine Reeber was teaching me always. I knew that and she knew that.
And it was good to be so loved that someone cared enough to try and save you from yourself and spend time with you to bring to your praxis of the art of teaching something better, something more thoughtful. I never met anyone more respecting of her District, of the importance of trying to use things in reasonable way, someone who knew I should not pack thirty snacks in my son’s lunch each day and tried almost weekly to remind me of that.
She was trying to teach me to remain in balance. One of the joys of the teachers I knew in Hueneme (that I see retiring and just cry) is that they are in balance. They flow like a river. ….chi lived is Corine. Chi lived.
I love Mrs. Reeber, she gave me my son loving and learning to read, sing, build, think, write, a “school-boy” that could do anything. She gave me help in my work, encouragement in my illness, inspiration in my teaching and I watched her help so many people in her days, people that needed that kindness. She told me many times, “
Now just be quiet.” She knew my tendency towards wanting to verbalize. But I saw Corine act. And I saw her act in the best educational interest of children over and over again. I saw her know when and how to be effective and to know what she could do. I saw her have her husband so ill and pull him through with the gift of care that she possesses, watched as she lost Marvin Reeber. I listened as she told me of her times she faced illness, of the proud accomplishments of her own children who are outstanding in this world, I knew a teacher was giving me mid-career some sense of where the river flows. It was such an act of kindness.
There is no way a community can honor those efforts. No way I can honor that service. I know parents of children that brought their kids back to their old teacher. I know she is the maker of snowmen; she stands surveying her work, hands on hips from afar letting it shine forth on a frosty winter morn. She has acted.
And looking, the work is very fine indeed.
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