Vera B. Williams
Some children's books speak to our lives in special ways.
I'm stepping away from a teacher to a "person teaching" tonight, it isn't the same exactly. Pretty close. I came from my past into this life, my valuing, my struggles, and I look from those eyes on what happens in my life. It's a book that allows me to talk about how important I find it for us to use books to let children share from their lives, as they really can be, like this one. I find this isn't a homogenized story life as our mandated basal portrays it.
This is "About the fire that burned away the things a family loved". Where I teach, in poverty, many things are burning all the time. Things included. My kids know words, even at six, not all children know: eviction, landlord, payments, lay-away, pawn shop. Last year I almost cried at how a child brightened hearing pawn shop to tell me of what of hers was staying there. And so we got her toys back. That little girl now in 5th grade has not missed a morning working in my room before school.
Do you know Elizabeth Cotton? Do you know the tune Shake Sugaree, try these two versions with kids:

Shake Sugaree ~ Elizabeth Cotten
Pawn shop blues.They connect to our experiences in my classroom, as literature allows, validates. It doesn't say "think positive" or that your struggles bore me, just be in the now, or that you need to speak happy tales to me, no, it tells a child they are valid because they speak. We can hear it. For me to believe in anyone I want to know who they really are. This book says you are more than the sum of the parts shaped in an imperfect world, you are a blessed child. In the arts we celebrate your struggles. We will know the " you."
My now 18 year old daughter introduced me to the Vera B. Williams books. (Here she was when she got me to reading them with her at the table I made her...based on the song Bobby Shafto she learned at about 14 months. It was her first song. I liked Bobby Shafto, so she heard it from me.) I never separate her from Vera B. Williams.

She never let us down. Sylvia was extraordinary reading Cherries and Cherry Pits as a very young 4 year old to her new kindergarten class. It's a bit of a marvelous read. But this lovely one is called "A Chair For My Mother" one she shared with me after taking it out from the library. That's where we found these Vera B. Williams books in Monterey, but as the years went by I got those I could find for my classes of 1st graders and my children.
So let me tell you about this. I don't want to be misunderstood. it is a story that spoke to me, as me. A book about momma. My mom is having her birthday in a few days, a milestone birthday, so she would not appreciate my posting her near centurion date but I want to remember a little story I tell the children at some point. With some editing I'll not do today. I don't tell as much as I'll put here. She's sitting looking at TV perched on the corner of the arm of a chair. This Momma doesn't sit.
We watch the Grammy's and feel really disconnected from "music today." Like Tina Turner and Aretha. Do you remember the Grammy awards when Paul Simon sang about 50 ways To Leave Your Lover? I do. And I think My Little Town at another. Dave Grohl Foo Fighters, I'm waiting for the 2nd coming. it's different to me. And what did they do to Alicia Keyes? Produced it I guess. But at least we heard Hancock on Gershwin. And that lovely humble Amy Winehouse give her tribute to the Queen's English and the rehabilitation that will certainly fail her.
This is a child's story about a family that lives barely making ends meet. Told from the perspective of a young child, in their voice. Vera B. Williams often narrates in child voice,
wonderfully so. It's so powerful and dear and in many ways teaches a child they can narrate their own story. Among the many things needed for a child to write is the "sound of that writing." This is a model for that.
This family had their home devastated by fire. It isn't unknown in the classes I teach. Apartment fires happen quite a bit more than I ever knew. This is the story of saving into a big glass jar all the coins for a very long, long time to go get their dear Momma a new chair. What holds the readers is the love of the mother, the tenderness of acknowledging her struggle to make ends meet, and the feelings of how hard she works to have anything, and replace things after the fire.
Listen
"When we can't get a single other coin into the jar, we are going to take out all the money and go and buy a chair. Yes, a chair. A wonderful, beautiful, fat, soft armchair. we will get one covered in velvet with roses all over it. We are going to get the best chair in the whole world. That is because our old chairs burned up. There was a big fire in our house. all our chairs burned. So did our sofa and so did everything else. That wasn't such a long time ago. My mother and I were coming home from buying new shoes. I had new sandals. She had new pumps. We were walking to our house from the bus. We were looking at everyone's tulips. she was saying she liked red tulips and I was saying I liked yellow ones. Then we came to our block. Right outside our house stood two big fire engines. I could see lots of smoke. Tall orange flames came out of the roof. all the neighbors stood in a bunch across the street. Mama grabbed my hand and we ran. My uncle Sandy saw us and ran to us. Mama yelled, "Where's Mother?" I yelled, "Where's my grandma?" My aunt Ida waved and shouted, "She's here, she's here. She's O.K. Don't worry." Grandma was all right. our cat was safe too, though it took a while to find her. But everything else in our whole house was spoiled.
I knew those shoes. My family grew up much richer than my grandparents who lived in a hand built cabin with no plumbing, but my life wasn't easy.
I actually did geta pair of shoes a year. Had two or three toys at Christmases. This in my case was compounded by a monster father, professor, that wanted the love of others and resented his obligations at home. He raged all the time and made the life of a mom with her own issues so difficult she broke when I was in my teens. After he left to father another child with a girl my age ( all of this is the part I omit for kids of course) and contribute about $100 a month to our survival monthly my mom was in pieces. So it is. Off he went not really looking back except to lie/rage some more. But she had a tiny house, mortgage still to be paid, and troubles because we had no dishwasher, broken oven, furniture from my babyhood. It was all very hard and unnecessarily depressing as my father was out buying himself his well deserved life.
She called me one day from town having taken a second mortgage. I was upset really to deal with this, it indebted me to more work, but met her at the furniture store walking the 6 miles to get to her. we never had a car. Took an hour or so. She was so happy as I went in to find out what on earth was going on, sitting in this enormous shaggy bright orange chair. She wanted me to sign so that we would buy this huge burnt orange sofa and chair set. Huge pieces. I had to pay $50 to get it to the house. And so into our tiny split level with my grand mom dying of Altzheimers and all the issues of those times, we were swallowed up in the biggest brightest couch and chair I ever saw. Dad never let us change the carpet or improve anything, so the floor in our home was this slightly sour light tan stained nightmare it just swallowed up any esthetic with the paneling of thin cabin wood. But I never woke up and walked out in our main room I didn't from then on think, can that really be in this room? Is it really this bright. It couldn't be hidden under any afghan I made. And my grandmom poured a gallon of milk on the chair one midnight as she wandered about a month new. I found orange hard to decorate around. We ended up painting what we had orange.
Now how does this possibly relate to this Williams story?
This is a story about the feeling I had then. I wanted my mom to have what she liked.
I've never seen my mom sit in a chair in her life, except that day I went into the furniture store and saw her wrap it around her injured heart trying to stop the bleeding from the years of pain, dad's rejection and the damage all of it did to her. She had this smile that day like a little lost puppy child, like she might be worth a big burnt orange chair.
She said that she had never chosen a piece of the furniture she'd lived with for 28 years.
I can't forget that.
Williams captures in this book the vulnerability and the reality of being poor.
In her beautiful, beautiful watercolors.
Of having to save pennies and change in a jar for a very long time to get your mom her chair. She does this without pity or pleas for someone to save them. No one will.
She just presents and honors the life that is led everyday by many faceless, voiceless people. Ones that are damaged by hurricanes, fires, heart breaks with nothing left to do but struggle to go on. They aren't the ones jumping around tonight on the Grammy's on highwires doing whatever that is to sing a so called tribute to the Beatles or in some blacklight costumes in some Pyramid rapping in some weird-o tribute to the song of this year. They are probably working the diner many blocks down. Long ago they gave us our music.
Anyway it talks about what is lost in a fire. Possessions. It talks to children that know about these things. So it does fit my Sheltered Immersion 1st grade place teaching in my neighborhood. One of my little boys crying recently all morning, all morning, inconsolable but not talking for so long until I was breaking... over the car stolen from his family over the weekend. It speaks to these kids that save and save for what they have. Or know it in their families.
One of teachers, after I read it to her class years ago told me her story. She saved and saved for new furniture buying a set for a couple thousand. This meant everything to her, her life harder by far than mine. And the company the next day went into bankruptcy so she lost her money, got nothing due to leins on the stock of the store. And she had saved years and years.
No one to shed a tear. It just is, she said to me, looking broken, looking lost a few seconds. Needing the care of someone.
Vera B. Williams writes stories that honor the beauty and fragility of human life. Our pennies collect into our jars as we reaching deep inside try to find ways to give our mommas a big chair for a little rest. Rest from their burdens. Days that bring us up on their laps for time to share our stories.
I like to read this at Mom's day and then the children enjoy conducting a Mom's Day Tea. You have the children pick and learn very well a poem. They can even write it about their mom's, grandmums, about you if you stand in as I have done for children left alone. Each child says their poetry. It can be filmed and played. It can be acted out or sung. It can be songs. Then they serve tea in pretty little cups you have been collecting all year from yard sales and junk shops in your town, (absent that bring in some china) if you yard sale they keep them to remember. in our town the stores for various charities have the things to get plus you are giving them business. After the tea and cookies then it's time to take Mom in arms for a little waltz to a nice tune. I like the Circle Game, by Joni Mitchell. Send everybody home with a box of tissues. It will be worth all the trouble.
Happy Birthday Mum. Your life was not an easy one. I do owe you my life.


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